All About Aimer - French Verb

Everything you need to know about the regular -ER French verb aimer

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Aimer is one of the most common French verbs. It is a regular -ER verb, requires avoir in the compound tenses, and can mean "to like" or "to love." There is a little bit of a trick to using aimer correctly with people and direct object pronouns which you will learn about in this lesson.

Using aimer

Aimer means "to like" or "to love" when followed by a noun or infinitive.

   J'aime Paris - I love Paris

   Il aime les chats - He likes cats

   Aimes-tu voyager ?

- Do you like to travel?

I love you

When aimer is followed by a person, it means "to love" or "to be in love with." You can use aimer to mean simply "love" with your family, but with other people, it means "in love," so if that's not what you mean, you will need to qualify it (see below).

   J'aime Luc (mon frère).
   I love Luc (my brother).

   Il aime Chantal.
   He's in love with Chantal.

   Je t'aime !
   I love you!
   How to say "I love you"

I like you

To say that you "like" or "are fond of" someone, qualify aimer with an adverb, such as assez, bien, or beaucoup. These adverbs make aimer less strong, so that it can be used with friends rather than family and lovers.

   J'aime assez Paul.
   I kind of like Paul.

   J'aime bien Ana.
   I like Ana.

   J'aime beaucoup Étienne.
   I really like Étienne.

   Je t'aime bien.
   I like you.

Aimer with direct objects

The direct object pronouns le, la, and les can only be used with aimer when they refer to people.

The meaning of aimer with a direct object pronoun is the same as explained above.

   Je l'aime !
   I love him/her!

   Je l'aime bien.
   I like him/her.

When the direct object means "it" (because you are replacing a non-human noun or a verb), you cannot use a direct object pronoun; instead, you must use the indefinite demonstrative pronoun ça.

   Aimes-tu le tennis ? Oui, j'aime ça.
   Do you like tennis? Yes, I like it.

   Nous voyageons beaucoup, nous aimons ça.
   We travel a lot, we like it.

   Je t'ai écrit un poème - tu aimes ça ?
   I wrote you a poem - do you like it?

Aimer in the conditional

In the conditional, aimer is a polite way to make a request or state a desire

   J'aimerais partir à midi.
   I would like to leave at noon.

   Aimeriez-vous manger avec nous ?
   Would you like to eat with us?


The pronominal verb s'aimer can be reflexive or reciprocal.

1. Reflexive: to like oneself

   Je m'aime en bleu.
   I like myself (how I look) in blue.

   Il ne s'aime pas.
   He doesn't like himself (has low self-esteem).

2. Reciprocal: to be in love, to love one another

   Nous nous aimons.
   We are in love.

   Penses-tu qu'ils s'aiment ?
   Do you think they love one another?

Expressions with aimer

   aimer à la folie - to be madly in love

   aimer autant - to be just as happy (with, that), to prefer

   aimer mieux - to prefer

   Il m'aime un peu, beaucoup, passionnément, à la folie, pas du tout -
     He loves me, he loves me not

   Qui aime bien châtie bien (proverb) - Spare the rod and spoil the child

   Qui m'aime aime mon chien (proverb) - Love me, love my dog


Present tense

   tu aimes
   il aime
   nous aimons
   vous aimez
   ils aiment

All tenses