Aries and Aries Love Compatibility

Playing With Fire

A Joyous Couple
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There's nothing stopping Aries and Aries -- two fools in love -- to dive right in head first.  And that's the trouble too since it's a match that could use a chaperone. Two Aries in love are enthusiastic, especially in the beginning.  

No other sign is as likely to fall head over heels (Aries rules the head) in the first meeting. Aries can have many short, but passionate affairs that are exciting and fast-paced.

It begins with first impressions with two Aries Suns. There's a lot of vitality here, for an affair that gets physical right away. Getting physical can mean wrestling around, dancing up a storm or for some, competitive sports. And when the time is right, the Aries libido is strong, for nights that last until morning, and then start up again as soon as one eye is open.

Frictions start because each is headstrong, and wants to be top dog in this duo. There can be warm affection, until there's an argument and then, watch out!  Doors slamming, shouting in public and when two warriors face-off, there could be actual physical brawling.

Vim and Vigor

Two Aries are physically powerful in the bedroom, and at times can be aggressive. Aries thrives on a test of wills, and making love is an act of surrender to the moment. The tension of pursuit and resistance, until that sweet surrender, can be a big part of the love play.

Aries forgives easily and doesn't hold onto anger, but here you've got two alphas in one pack. There may always be a combative feeling to the relationship. And when things get complicated, one or both may bail too easily.

Aries loves to start things, but moves on at hints of emotional hand-wringing, or having to work out a mental puzzle.

They'll hang in there as long as it's fresh, adventurous and sexually satisfying, but in the end, this pairing calls for compromise. And that's not the Aries strong suit. Good while it lasts, and never a dull moment -- an unforgettable fling, but not necessarily for the long haul.

Mitigating Factors

Don't count this out if there's chemistry and understanding. Every Aries is different, depending on the Moon, Venus, Mars, and the rest of the cosmic ensemble. For tools to make it work, look deeper into the chart for what grounds, harmonizes and what each needs and desires in love.

The Moon is who each of you are at home in your pajamas. It's also how you react to a crisis or emotional intensity. Earth sign Moons can ground an Aries, and lends patience. An air sign Moon is a base of detachment, and this helps to keep perspective. An Aries with a water sign Moon is sensitive and empathetic. An Aries with a fire sign Moon is instinctual and flashes on feelings.

Are your Moon signs compatible? Air and fire go together well, and so do earth and water. A strong Moon sign rapport can give your "Ariesness" a home and is like a love glue. It bodes well for living together and overcoming the all-or-nothing impulsiveness of your sign.

 

Your Venus sign shows what you're magnetized to, in love and friendship. It's your taste in women (for men) or your feminine way (for women). When Venus is in synch, you want the same things, and grow intimacy with ease. Look to your Venus Sign for ways to make memorable times with your fellow Aries.

Last but not least, look to your Mars Signs. Aries is ruled by Mars, the red planet. And you and your beloveds Mars is a tip off to how you direct your forceful energies. Mars is symbolically the god of war, and there's the saying, "All's fair in love and war." Your Mars sign reveals how you pursue your desires, your physical rhythm and what gets you fired up.

Sunny Side

Two Aries are 100% in the moment. Their traits include:

  • up for adventurous times
  • super active
  • support each others' ambitions
  • have crazy high libidos
  • similarly honest
  • don't tend to hold a grudge
  • always new
  • at home pushing and provoking

Aries is associated with the Fool card in the Tarot, and it's part of Aries' charm to face each new day like it's the first.  

Dark Side

Two Aries make for knock down drag outs, little restraint on aggression; have trouble relating to the "other;" hold selfish viewpoints with no room for compromise; are explosive; are take-no-prisoner style brutal exes.  

Aries-Aries Love Stories

They came.  They saw (each other).  They conquered.  How goes it with two who think all's fair in love and war? 

Here's a typical loves story:  "We were perfect together while it lasted. I feel as though he could still be my soulmate, but this love match article makes perfect sense. I'm not sure if I should just leave it as the fling it was or pursue it again. I'm not even sure my feelings are still strong. Aries and Aries can be amazing but I recommend not jumping into it too quickly, or it will be over before you even realize."

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