Cancer With Leo: Their Love Compatibility

Playful, Creative Souls Who Seek an Epic Romance

A couple having fun on the beach
A Cancer-Leo relationship will take work, but it will be worth it. / Credit: Cultura RM Exclusive/Matt Dutile / Getty Images.

Cancer and Leo both have a playful attitude and a desire for an epic, enduring romance.

These two are neighbors on the zodiac wheel, and depending on the degree of their sun, they share many of the same cosmic energies. They are fun-loving and creative.

Dates might include favorite activities from childhood, such as swinging and sliding in the playground. Cancer has a harder time with big crowds than Leo, who doesn't mind showy spectacles. The Leo likes romantic gestures, and the Cancer knows how and when to show sincere affection.

They both like to kiss and cuddle, and they don't mind showing the world their good times. Holidays will be huge for this pair, each trying to outdo the other to make it the best ever. Both are sentimental, giving their romance a sense of story, with souvenirs, pictures, and trinkets that represent their love.

Sun (Leo) and Moon (Cancer)

Cancer wants to feel emotionally secure and needs that to show who they are under the aloof exterior. If Leo looks down, as if from a regal throne, that leaves the Crab wondering if they'll be deemed worthy. If Cancers feel at all judged, they're known to launch a preemptive push away from the other to avoid getting rejected. Both signs take rejection very hard and aim to avoid it by watching for the signs.

Leos want to feel proud of their mate and won't have the patience for the Crab's moments of panicking in public and being overwhelmed by insecurity. This situation worsens if the Lion grows disdainful, which Cancer senses immediately.

Leo has the comic gifts to lighten the Moonchild's dark moods but won't want this to be a full-time job. A strong Cancer accepts the posturing of the proud Lion and will grow from basking in the self-confidence of a Leo.

Attention Seekers From Different Molds

Leo and Cancer handle emotions differently and seek different kinds of attention. Leo may not be able to reassure the sensitive Moonchild. If the Crab gets too needy, Leo will lose respect.

Leo craves an admiring audience and won't find one in a Cancer that's needy, clingy, and raining on the Leo's parade. On the other hand, Cancers are often childlike and instinctively know what others need.  They're the ones clapping wildly and making extravagant faces, laughing or crying at the Leo's theatrics. 

Both signs easily fall into moods that cloud thinking. Give each other space to work things through, to let the waters calm or to redirect the fiery intensity into productive creativity. Love is very personal here, which makes it meaningful, but each needs solitude to stay balanced and find objectivity.

Moods and Approval

Cancer will likely intuit the Leo need for approval but grow resentful if it feels too one-sided. If this isn't overcome, neither may feel that their needs are met. Money could be a sticking point since Leo is a big spender and Cancer a spendthrift. But as players and artists, they have a lot to offer each other and could create magic through creative collaboration. If they stay on the sunny side of life, this relationship could be one that lasts.

It's always best to learn a few tips for dating a Cancer so that there are no big surprises along the way. Essentially with Cancer, a sideways seduction works better than full-frontal love.

Upside: loyal friends, love children, share an urge for creative expression with a personal bent.

Downside: getting lost in subjective viewpoints, childlike becomes childish, water (Cancer) puts out fires (Leo) of inspiration, Cancer is kind of an introvert and Leo is an extrovert, fire (Leo) parches water (Cancer) with demanding ways, both can be selfish to the extreme.

Element and Quality Cardinal (initiating) Water (emotional) (Cancer) and Fixed (sustaining) Fire (inspired action) (Leo)

Cancer and Leo Love Story

"I (Cancer) am currently with a Leo man and couldn't agree more with this. We know that our Leos love us; it's just our insecurities that usually get the better of us. Cancers need constant reassurance, and being told often that we are loved by our partners keeps our insecurities at bay. We Cancers are driven by emotions; we can't help that. It takes both sides to make this relationship work, but it will be worth every effort once it does."